Recent Musings

  Episode Summary Come follow me on Instagram @malaloves.  Let me know what you love about the show, what you want more of and what you want less of, this show is for you and you get to truly elevate your life and soul. This post contains compensated links, you can find more information in […]

  Episode Summary Come follow me on Instagram @malaloves.  Let me know what you love about the show, what you want more of and what you want less of, this show is for you and I want it to truly elevate your life and soul. This post contains compensated links, you can find more information […]

I didn’t discover my identity until I was 30.  I lost myself in who I thought I should be.  Rooted in other people’s expectations.  Planted in their shoulds. I was always told my reputation mattered.  The model of that reputation was a good girl. If I unpack it more, it was a good white girl. The problem with this was, I wasn’t white.

Episode Summary Come follow me on Instagram @malaloves.  Let me know what you love about the show, what you want more of and what you want less of, this show is for you and I want it to truly elevate your life and soul. This post contains compensated links, you can find more information in […]

  Episode Summary “When you’re able to become more confident about your story and you become more heartfelt, and more real about what you want to share, and it really comes from the heart, not just what you think other people might want you to share, when it when we really get to that place, […]

 < Episode Summary “I’ve always been a natural person who’s loved people but was always really disappointed by them. And I just woke up one day and wasn’t disappointed anymore because I just understood I understood that hurt people hurt people, and it’s just made me understand.” Self-Awareness is about knowing yourself. It’s about claiming […]

A Letter to You   Hello Sweet Soul,   I remember being you, that innocent little rose waiting for someone to pick you.   Chosen by popularity so you could fit in.   Striving for success as defined by the media.   The girls in the movies smoking cigarettes and crying on the floor of […]

Episode Notes It’s taken me some time to post this because I’ve been processing what’s been going on in the world.  White privilege is real and we need to continue to do the work for equality.  Initially, I felt anger as a Brown woman, and then I slowed down and returned to centre.  Here I […]

  Episode Summary “I want girls that are growing up like me or women that experience what I’ve experienced to know that you are beautiful, regardless of the colour of your skin, regardless of how you look, because beauty starts with you.” Racial prejudice has finally been brought to the forefront of our lives and […]

Episode Summary In this episode, I talk about how to connect to your purpose, if you want to read more about this, then I go into even more detail in my blog post How to Find Your Purpose When You Feel Passionless, which you can read here. Come follow me on Instagram @malaloves.  Let me […]